ashamed
UK /əˈʃeɪmd/ US /əˈʃeɪmd/ Syllables: a-shamed
Quick answer
Feeling embarrassed or guilty about something you did.
Ashamed describes the feeling of being embarrassed or guilty about something you did, or about something that is not right. You may be ashamed of a lie, ashamed of your bad behavior or ashamed that you forgot an important date. The feeling can be strong, and it often makes a person want to hide. You use it after the verb be, as in I am ashamed. You can also use it with of and a thing or a person: she is ashamed of her mistake. The noun is shame.
"He felt ashamed after snapping at his little sister for no reason."Example sentences
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"He was ashamed of the lie he told his teacher."
Level B1
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"You should not be ashamed to ask for help."
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"She felt ashamed when she saw the mess she had made."
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"I am ashamed that I forgot your birthday."
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Synonyms and antonyms
Synonyms
Antonyms
Look-alikes and common mistakes
- embarrassed : Embarrassed is milder and can be about small things, such as tripping. Ashamed is deeper and is about doing wrong.
- guilty : Guilty means you did wrong. Ashamed describes how you feel about it.
Word family and forms
Word partners
Words and phrases that often go with "ashamed".
- ashamed of
- feel ashamed
- deeply ashamed
- ashamed to say
- ashamed of yourself
- not ashamed
Origin
Ashamed comes from Old English ascamod, the past participle of ascamian, to be ashamed. It is built from the prefix a- and the word shame. It was in English before the year 1000.
Checked against: Wiktionary, the free dictionary, Dictionary.com.
Usage notes
Usually followed by "of", as in "ashamed of what I said".
How to remember it
Ashamed has shame inside: a plus shamed. When you are ashamed, you feel shame.
Test yourself
Which word fits the gap? "He was _____ of the lie he told his teacher."
Answer: ashamed
In your own words, what does "ashamed" mean?
Feeling embarrassed or guilty about something you did.
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Sources and credits
- Wiktionary, the free dictionary (CC BY-SA 4.0) · used for the origin · checked Oct 19, 2026
- Dictionary.com · used for the origin · checked Oct 19, 2026
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